Third Date’s A Charm

On our last date, Matt and I took advantage of his children’s visit to grandma and grandpa’s and he hosted us at his home in Queens. Since his children are usually at home (obviously), I invited him to come to my apartment for our third date. Unfortunately, we were unable to capitalize on Viktor’s quick trip to Europe, but we arranged to meet up on a recent Monday night and Viktor agreed to go to the movies, thus giving us some time alone.

Matt arrived in a torrential downpour, which I chose to see as nostalgic of our first date (on which it had rained). I welcomed him in and gave him a tour of our home. In the lead up to our date, we had decided to conduct research on BDSM and compare notes. I wasn’t sure how seriously he would take the “assignment,” but I took it to heart, writing up a formal document complete with images and a bibliography. I plied Matt with wine and we sat down to a lively discussion on this topic, filling in gaps in each other’s research and generally enjoying the connections we were drawing between the past and present, as we learned more about the history of BDSM.

Our “business” concluded, Matt came up to my chair, pulled me to my feet, kissed me and then scooped me up in his arms and carried me to the guest room (swoon!). We resumed kissing and swiftly removed our clothes. I untied my maxi dress and let it fall to the floor, dramatically revealing my pink-bowed lingerie, offering myself up to him as his present. Matt paused a moment to take me – all of me – in and then preceded to place me on the bed.

I was a little nervous, but mostly excited, as he began to touch my breasts, then licked them and gently teased my nipples. He next focused his attention on my pussy and clitoris as I grew wetter and more aroused with each stroke. Soon after, we pulled off my bra and panties and his briefs, reveling in each other’s bodies, further turning each other on. I curled my palm around his erect cock, caressing him up and down as he grew harder and harder. He then easily slid on a condom and invited me on top of him. I straddled his body and slowly drew him in, enjoying the sensation of him inside me, until we eventually both climaxed.

Afterwards, I would have liked to linger with him even longer, but I was sensitive to the fact that Viktor had come home during our encounter and I wanted the two to meet before Viktor went to bed. I suggested that Matt get dressed in an attempt to make the introduction slightly less awkward. Fortunately, they immediately clicked and it was a comfortable conversation as they got to know one another. Viktor then excused himself to give Matt and I some time to say a proper goodbye as I walked Matt to the front door and gave him a final kiss.

During the exchange with Viktor, the three of us had discussed a recent blog post about second dates. In response, before exiting, Matt jokingly asked me how I had thought our date had gone, to which I replied, “Third date’s a charm.” It must have been; he’s already asked me out for a fourth date!

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While happily married to my soulmate for 20+ years, after years of body shame and sexual shutdown, I am ready to step into my sexual power as we open up our relationship and explore the possibilities.

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