The power of polka dots

While I left most of the planning for our fourth date up to Tim, I knew at least part of my attire for the evening would be the beautiful AP stockings he had gifted me on our third date. They were black polka-dots, so I paired them with a black garter belt and a new matching bra and panty that was black with white dots. During one of our text chats, Tim had expressed interest in seeing me in a tight-fitting, short dress, so I perused my closet for something that fit the bill and pulled on a black knit dress to wear over my lingerie.

I also knew that I had to make sure that the new sex toy was adequately charged and that I generally knew how to use it (or at least brought the instructions with me). Once it was ready, I turned on the small vibrator and slipped it into the pouch provided in the underwear included in the toy’s set. I then tied them on over my sexy, ouvert panties. The vibrator was in place (sort of), but slipped further into the pouch as I walked to the subway.

On my way to meet Tim, he texted me to make sure I remembered that we were meeting at the James Hotel in Nomad, not Soho, and then he sent me a photo of the cocktail menu so he could order my drink for me and have it waiting upon my arrival. Very classy and appreciated!

Upon arrival at the bar, I immediately located Tim at a table and kissed him hello.  And, of course, there was my drink as well. We spent the time talking and flirting and otherwise catching up with one another. I had taken an edible before I left my apartment because I was a little anxious about our plan, but after an hour or so, I felt relaxed enough to hand Tim the remote.

The first time he turned it on there was an intense jolt, which was both exciting and overwhelming. I had worried that the hum of the vibrator would be audible to other guests, but thankfully the live jazz music and din of the crowd masked any noise and vibrations and I kept my own reactions relatively mute. We were actually more concerned about the indicator light on the remote being seen by other patrons.

The vibrator wasn’t exactly in the right place, so I unobtrusively nudged it higher to reach my clit. It worked for a time, but didn’t stay put. Next time, I would wear the tie-ons UNDER my other pair of panties to keep it in place. So, it was a pleasurable experience, but not as intense and focused as we had anticipated. Regardless, we had a lot of fun with Tim teasing me and being playful. Eventually, he asked for the check and we headed to our room upstairs (I had caught on to his game by now 😊).

Once upstairs, Tim opened the door, we stepped in and shut the door behind us. I then slowly pulled my dress up and over head, revealing the bra, panties, garter belt and stockings to their full effect. I let him drink in the view for a few moments, but it was clear that neither of us wanted to wait too long to get to the main event and soon, all of it came off and we were in bed enjoying each other’s bodies, bringing each other to orgasm and simply delighting in our mutual pleasure.

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While happily married to my soulmate for 20+ years, after years of body shame and sexual shutdown, I am ready to step into my sexual power as we open up our relationship and explore the possibilities.

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