Life is but a Dream…hotel

For our third date, Tim asked if I wanted to go somewhere trendy or more sedate. I chose trendy and we arranged to meet at the rooftop bar at the Dream Hotel Downtown. The weather was perfect and I found Tim sitting at a table on the balcony, with amazing views of the New York City skyline.

It had been a few weeks since we had seen each other and we warmly greeted one another and then Tim presented me with a gift… stockings from Agent Provocateur. It was a sexy start to the evening.

We enjoyed a few drinks and had fun catching up with each other. Then Tim suggested that we go to dinner and offered me some choices in the neighborhood. We decided to go to Buddakan, headed over to the restaurant and proceeded to have a delicious meal.

After dinner, we started walking back to the hotel. I was a little tipsy and wasn’t paying close attention, thinking that we were going back to the rooftop for another drink or two. Then suddenly I realized that we were heading to a room. Beautifully executed!

As we entered the room, we began to kiss. Our kisses became more intense as we slowly disrobed. We continued to enjoy each other, exploring the taste and touch of our bodies, eventually merging through sex until we were spent and fell asleep.

Awhile later, we woke up and headed down to the street as Tim graciously called a car for me and sent me safely on my way home. I arrived home around 3am blissful and sleepy and looking forward to seeing Tim again soon.

In the days that followed, we texted each other regularly, which was fun, flirty and a really welcome way to maintain our connection between dates. This trend has continued and makes me very happy, especially as Tim is very generous with his compliments.

The next week, during one of our texting sessions, I mentioned that I was headed to a lingerie and sex toy party. Tim said, maybe you’ll get a new toy and I jokingly asked if he had any requests. Without skipping a beat, he immediately texted back: Remote control vibrator! So I arrived at the event, mission in hand and left, Mission Accomplished! After the party, I called to tell him the good news and we eagerly awaited our fourth date!


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While happily married to my soulmate for 20+ years, after years of body shame and sexual shutdown, I am ready to step into my sexual power as we open up our relationship and explore the possibilities.

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