My husband hijacked my date…and I really liked it!

I’ve been trying to figure out how to start this post because I initially encountered Ryan at the first erotic party I attended back in May. As the ropes master, Ryan was tying up party guests and introducing them to this Japanese sensual art. But, aside from my curiosity about Shibari, I didn’t give him a second thought. Afterwards, I had a slight pang of regret at not participating and resolved to do so at the next party, but, then chose not to spend the night waiting on the lengthy line (and ended up meeting Jake and Mia instead), so our paths still didn’t cross.

At the third party, Viktor met Ryan when Ryan tied up Marissa and they shared photos and a brief discussion on their shared interest in Shibari, but I wasn’t a part of those interactions. Thus, it wasn’t until my fourth party that I was introduced to Ryan officially. He had become friends with Jason and Beti, with whom we had connected before (and then met at) the party, and the five of us ended up hanging out around the fire pit.

As Ryan and I talked, I began to feel some chemistry and was very intrigued by him. Then, toward the end of the party, I had the exquisite pleasure of being bound and suspended by Ryan. I was definitely smitten, but figured I wouldn’t see him again until the next party. Fortunately, I was wrong.

A few days after the party, I received a Direct Message on Instagram from Ryan complimenting me on my erotic dance (at the party) and asking if he could see me again in the future. Butterflies! I immediately consented and he sent me his phone number. After several text exchanges, we tried to meet up late one night (Ryan’s work schedule is not 9-5), but he kept getting held up at work. I eventually decided that it was too late to meet up, but suggested that we talk on the phone as he drove home that night. It was a pleasure to speak with him and get to know him better.

As I planned other dates, my mind kept traveling back to him. I desired for him to ask me out, but knew that his schedule was challenging and didn’t want to hope for too much. However, at one point, I did let him know that I would be available on a particular Friday night (in case it was of interest to him, lol!).

At first, he responded that it was too far ahead to commit due to work, but he later reached out and invited me to join him at a pool party. I was excited about the event and seeing him, but wasn’t sure what to expect with regard to our interactions as well as with regard to the event itself, and just let myself be open to what might unfold.

Soon after we arrived, we stripped down to our bathing suits, checked our clothing and coats, and headed to the bar for drinks. We sat talking and soon started kissing. Ryan asked for general consent for the night, which I eagerly granted. Done with our drinks, we immersed ourselves in the pool, continuing to talk and kiss. As our kissing grew more intense, Ryan’s fingers began to wander, traveling to my breasts and then, later, to my pussy. I eagerly reciprocated the explicit touch on his cock. It was incredibly intimate for a public, well-lit event, but somehow the crowd seemed to fade, then disappear, and I was all but lost to everything but Ryan and his touch. Sigh!

After the party, we went out to a diner with his friends, splitting an order of blueberry pancakes and generally enjoying each other’s company. By then, it was 2:30 AM, but I knew that Viktor was still out at a rave and Ryan was happy to come home with me. I gave him a brief tour of the apartment that ended with the guest room, where we promptly disrobed and fell into bed, hungry to explore each other further, without the distraction of water and people. We chose to defer intercourse since it was late, but we shared the bliss of oral sex.

We continued to kiss, touch and talk, when, several hours later, we heard the apartment door open, indicating that Viktor had arrived home. Then there was a knock on the guest room door. We invited Viktor to come in and he quickly undressed and climbed into bed with us. Viktor began to tell us about his evening and we briefly shared about the pool party. Then we stopped talking and Ryan started to give Viktor a blowjob. Next, Viktor happily returned the favor. Eventually they remembered about me (just kidding), and we all actively engaged in a magnificent threesome. It was amazing! It was incredibly erotic to watch Viktor and Ryan together and then receive their joint attention. I enjoyed the experience even more than my threesome with Jake and Mia. We all really clicked and the chemistry seemed to abound on all sides – win-win-win for everybody! By 6:30 AM, Ryan had to head home and Viktor and I drifted off to sleep for a few hours, ecstatically content.

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While happily married to my soulmate for 20+ years, after years of body shame and sexual shutdown, I am ready to step into my sexual power as we open up our relationship and explore the possibilities.

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