She Said: Love & Sex & Magick


For Viktor’s take, see his post.

There’s been a lot of talk about Jeannie, Viktor and someone or Jeannie and someone, but not so much about just Jeannie and Viktor. Well, that was remedied in celebration of Valentine’s Day. We chose to book a room at the Essex House, which was the hotel where we spent our wedding night. I even brought a copy of the original room receipt to share with the staff at check-in.

We were given a beautiful room with a view of Central Park and then took some time setting everything up — creating a makeshift pantry for our snacks and kicking off the weekend with a glass of Champagne. I had purchased a new set of Agent Provocateur lingerie for the occasion because, well, I’m a lingerie addict and also to imbue our new credit card with good vibes as this was the first purchase made on it.

Once we were ready, Victor surprised me with a magical, love spell that truly set the container for our celebration and created the perfect mood, separating the week from the weekend and the mundane from the sacred.

We slowly turned our attention to each other with kisses and caresses. Then, Victor really surprised me! He brought me to orgasm with Tantric energy breath without touching my genitals at all. I had no idea this was even possible. The only other somewhat similar experience I have had was when I had used Layla Martin’s breathwork audio recording, using only my breath and energy flow to bring me to orgasm, but that had required a lot of effort and focus from me. In this case, it was effort focused on me. Wow! Afterwards, I continued to feel waves of orgasm come upon me throughout the evening, almost like aftershocks from an earthquake. It was an exquisite experience.

Throughout our time in the hotel we simply enjoyed one another through touch and taste, indulging in delicious foods, titillating movies (a big thumbs up for Erica Lust’s Confessions series) and much love. It was a reminder how important (and fun) it is to have the luxury of time to spend with your partner relishing in their company, their body and your shared intimacy.

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While happily married to my soulmate for 20+ years, after years of body shame and sexual shutdown, I am ready to step into my sexual power as we open up our relationship and explore the possibilities.

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